Thursday, 14 November 2024

The 10 year old who awoke the world to a vital cause

The 10 year old who awoke the world to a vital cause

Words by Abi Scaife

She was only ten years old when she changed the world - and today, aged 20, Nada Alahdal shows no signs of slowing.

“Child marriage in my village is very common, especially in my family,” explains Nada. “My grandma, she got married when she was nine. My mom, she got married at the age of 14. So for them, these kinds of things [are] normal. This crime is normal for them because it happens in [their] small society.”

Nada was 10 years and three months old when she was first engaged. Growing up in a small village in Yemen, child marriage was common in her family - which is why her parents engaged her to be married off to a wealthy expatriate, 16 years Nada’s senior.

Luckily for Nada, her uncle Abdel Salam al-Ahdal stepped in. Abdel believed that what was happening to Nada was wrong, and was able to dissuade the suitor, dissolving the engagement.

“He's well educated,” explains Nada. “He's the only person in the family who finished uni. He's really into media and reading a lot, so he's the only person who's educated in the whole family. He really believes in educating girls, and girls' rights. In summer breaks he used to take one of the girls [in the family] to the capital of Yemen, educate them, join them to singing classes, drawing classes, English classes, and I got really close to my uncle. He used to take care of my education.”

Unfortunately for Nada, her parents found another man to marry her. This is when she ran away from home, to her uncle who took her in - and when she filmed a video speaking out against her situation, and the situation of many other girls who are forced into child marriage.

The video went viral, and you can watch it here, with English subtitles.

Though Nada went to live with her uncle, the danger was by no means over. Nada and Abdel were kidnapped by ISIS, in an attempt to silence her. There has been a lot of backlash from those who still support child marriage - though Nada has received support around the world, there were many that wished to prevent her from speaking out.

“I [received] a royal invitation from Saudi Arabia, saying that Arabia will take care of everything, like, [my] education, etcetera, will be under their support. Obviously, I accepted that - I needed to be protected, I didn't have another choice,” explains Nada. “[That is] where I started my activity - I’m talking about child marriage, I'm [a] feminist, on social media and TV, talking about my story and trying to spread awareness about the consequences of child marriage, and the importance of girls lives.”

Since then, Nada has been fighting to end child marriages across the globe and to protect the young girls that are being subjected to this injustice. She has even gone on to create her own charity - the Nada Foundation. The foundation’s project ‘Our Dreams Thrive’ is helping Yemeni girls that have been displaced by child marriage, violence or conflict.

The Nada Foundation is using profits from Nada’s book; The Story of the Girl Who Stood Up Against Child Marriage, which she co-wrote alongside Yemeni director Khadija al-Salam. The money is currently funding the educational journey of 10,000 girls, teaching them the English language, and helping them to instil them with confidence, dignity and passion - as well as giving them the opportunity to continue their education remotely.

“We really believe that English can save so many girls’ lives,” says Nada. “One video of mine saved my life - I didn't mean to post it for people to see, but it happened. Imagine [if] I was speaking in English, my message would be worldwide. So that's why we start courses for these girls for free to learn English. We opened in six cities in Yemen classes.”

The biggest result of Nada’s incredible work has been the young girls that she has been able to save. Her story is a long, dangerous and stressful one - but it has inspired so many other girls around the world that are enduring, or in danger of, child marriages. Thanks to her work, these girls are finding freedom.

“There are so many girls [that] actually social media contacted me and asked me for help,” explains Nada, speaking of the incredible work her foundation is continuing to perform. “So the programme is to take these girls, put them in a safe places and try to solve their problems with the police legally. It was a safe haven. We [have] saved more than 63 girls.”

Charity check-in 

At Smiley Movement, we like to elevate the work of charities across the world. Here are three charities whose causes align with the themes in this article.

ActionAid UK. This is an international charity that works with women and girls living in poverty, and helping to end child marriage. Support them here.

Girls Not Brides. Girls Not Brides is a global partnership working collectively to end child marriage. Learn more here.

World Vision UK. For 70 years, World Vision UK has been working to end child marriages across the globe. Find out more.

This article aligns with the UN SDG Gender Equality.

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Wednesday, 17 July 2024

Shocking Reality: Child Marriage on the Rise in Europe

Shocking Reality: Child Marriage on the Rise in Europe

Child marriage has been a prevalent issue in Europe for many years, although it may not be as widely discussed as in other parts of the world. Despite efforts to combat child marriage, it still persists in certain communities and countries within Europe.

In recent years, there have been increased efforts to raise awareness about the harmful effects of child marriage and to advocate for stronger laws and policies to protect children from this practice. Organizations and activists are working tirelessly to educate communities about the importance of ending child marriage and to provide support for those at risk.

Child marriage is a violation of human rights and has serious consequences for the physical, emotional, and psychological well-being of the children involved. Many child brides are forced into marriage against their will and are often subjected to abuse, isolation, and early pregnancy.

In some European countries, the legal age of marriage is below 18, which leaves children vulnerable to being married off at a young age. Additionally, cultural and religious beliefs in certain communities perpetuate the practice of child marriage, making it difficult to eradicate.

It is crucial for governments, organizations, and individuals to work together to end child marriage in Europe. By implementing stronger laws, providing support for those at risk, and raising awareness about the harmful effects of this practice, we can protect children from the devastating consequences of child marriage.

Every child deserves the right to a safe and healthy childhood, free from the constraints of early marriage. It is our responsibility as a society to speak out against child marriage and to ensure that children are allowed to grow and thrive without being forced into marriage before they are ready. Let us work together to create a future where every child is able to reach their full potential without the burden of child marriage. To support the cause of child marriage, support the

Nada Foundation

Nada Alahdal A human rights activist to advocate for the issue of child marriage, and head of the

Nada Foundation

for the Protection of Girls https://nadaalahdal.com/2024/07/18/shocking-reality-child-marriage-on-the-rise-in-europe.html?feed_id=777&_unique_id=66988f6925ca9

Monday, 15 July 2024

Child Marriage on the Rise in Europe: What Can Be Done to Stop It?

Child Marriage on the Rise in Europe: What Can Be Done to Stop It?

Child marriage is a pressing issue that continues to affect many countries in Europe, despite efforts to combat it. The practice of forcing young girls into marriage before they reach the legal age is a violation of their basic human rights and has long-lasting negative repercussions.

In some European countries, child marriage is still practiced due to cultural beliefs, poverty, or lack of education. Girls are often forced into marriage with older men, robbing them of their childhood and putting them at risk of physical and emotional harm. These young brides are often unable to continue their education or pursue their dreams, as they are expected to fulfill traditional gender roles as wives and mothers.

The consequences of child marriage are severe and far-reaching. Girls who are married at a young age are more likely to experience domestic violence, sexual abuse, and health complications related to childbirth. They are also at a higher risk of dropping out of school and living in poverty.

Efforts to address child marriage in Europe have been made, but more needs to be done to protect vulnerable girls from this harmful practice. Governments, NGOs, and community leaders must work together to raise awareness about the issue, provide support to victims, and change attitudes towards child marriage.

It is essential to empower girls with education, economic opportunities, and access to healthcare in order to break the cycle of poverty and discrimination that often perpetuates child marriage. By investing in the well-being and potential of young girls, we can create a future where every child has the opportunity to thrive and reach their full potential, free from the chains of child marriage. To support the cause of child marriage, support the

Nada Foundation

Nada Alahdal A human rights activist to advocate for the issue of child marriage, and head of the

Nada Foundation

for the Protection of Girls https://nadaalahdal.com/2024/07/16/child-marriage-on-the-rise-in-europe-what-can-be-done-to-stop-it.html?feed_id=764&_unique_id=6695d01fb4a70

Saturday, 13 July 2024

Child Marriage in Europe: A Hidden but Growing Issue

Child Marriage in Europe: A Hidden but Growing Issue

Child marriage is a pressing issue in Europe that continues to affect many young girls and boys. Despite efforts to combat this harmful practice, it still persists in many countries across the continent.

In some European countries, the legal age of marriage is lower than in others, creating loopholes that allow for child marriage to occur. This lack of uniformity in laws contributes to the prevalence of child marriage in certain regions. Furthermore, cultural and traditional beliefs often play a significant role in perpetuating this harmful practice, as families may see child marriage as a way to secure their social status or financial stability.

One of the major consequences of child marriage is the denial of education and opportunities for young girls and boys. Many child brides are forced to drop out of school and are often subjected to domestic violence and early pregnancies. This not only hinders their personal development but also perpetuates a cycle of poverty and inequality.

Efforts to address child marriage in Europe must include not only legal reforms but also comprehensive education and awareness campaigns. By challenging ingrained beliefs and advocating for the rights of children, we can work towards eradicating child marriage and promoting gender equality. It is crucial for governments, civil society organizations, and individuals to come together to protect the rights and well-being of children across Europe.

Child marriage is a violation of human rights and must be addressed with urgency and determination. By working together, we can create a future where every child is free from the shackles of early marriage and is able to fulfill their potential. Let us stand united in the fight against child marriage and strive for a more just and equal society for all. To support the cause of child marriage, support the

Nada Foundation

Nada Alahdal A human rights activist to advocate for the issue of child marriage, and head of the

Nada Foundation

for the Protection of Girls https://nadaalahdal.com/2024/07/13/child-marriage-in-europe-a-hidden-but-growing-issue.html?feed_id=751&_unique_id=6693110ea94bd

Thursday, 11 July 2024

Child Marriage: A Hidden Crisis in Europe

Child Marriage: A Hidden Crisis in Europe

Child marriage has been a persistent issue in Europe for many years, despite efforts to eradicate it. This harmful practice, which involves marrying off minors under the age of 18, is a violation of human rights and can have serious consequences for the health and well-being of young girls.

In many European countries, child marriage is illegal, yet it continues to occur due to cultural beliefs, poverty, and lack of enforcement of existing laws. Girls who are forced into marriage at a young age often face a lifetime of physical, emotional, and psychological harm. They are more likely to drop out of school, experience domestic violence, and have limited economic opportunities.

Child marriage is particularly prevalent in certain communities, such as Roma and migrant populations, where traditional practices and beliefs may still hold sway. These communities often face discrimination and marginalization, making it difficult for authorities to address the issue effectively. In some cases, girls may be married off to older men as a form of protection or economic security, further perpetuating the cycle of poverty and inequality.

Efforts to combat child marriage in Europe have focused on raising awareness, providing support services for at-risk girls, and working with communities to change harmful attitudes and practices. Organizations such as Girls Not Brides and UNICEF have been instrumental in advocating for the rights of young girls and pushing for policy changes to protect them from early marriage.

Despite these efforts, child marriage remains a significant challenge in Europe, and more needs to be done to address the root causes of the problem. By empowering girls with education, healthcare, and economic opportunities, we can help break the cycle of poverty and discrimination that perpetuates child marriage. It is crucial that we continue to work together to ensure that all children have the chance to grow up in a safe and healthy environment, free from the harmful effects of early marriage. To support the cause of child marriage, support the

Nada Foundation

Nada Alahdal A human rights activist to advocate for the issue of child marriage, and head of the

Nada Foundation

for the Protection of Girls https://nadaalahdal.com/2024/07/11/child-marriage-a-hidden-crisis-in-europe.html?feed_id=738&_unique_id=6690516fa8489

Tuesday, 9 July 2024

Report reveals alarming rates of child marriage in Europe

Report reveals alarming rates of child marriage in Europe

Child marriage continues to be a prevalent issue in Europe, despite efforts to combat it. This harmful practice not only violates the human rights of young girls, but also perpetuates cycles of poverty and discrimination.

In many European countries, the legal age of marriage is 18, with some exceptions for minors with parental consent. However, loopholes in the law and cultural traditions often allow for child marriages to occur under the radar. This can have devastating consequences for the physical, emotional, and social well-being of the individuals involved.

Child brides are more likely to drop out of school, suffer from domestic violence, and experience complications during pregnancy and childbirth. They are also at a higher risk of poverty and lack of access to healthcare and other basic services. Additionally, child marriage perpetuates gender inequality and reinforces harmful stereotypes about the role of women in society.

It is crucial for governments, civil society organizations, and communities to work together to address the root causes of child marriage and provide support for those at risk. This includes implementing and enforcing laws that protect the rights of children, providing access to education and healthcare, and promoting gender equality.

By raising awareness about the harmful effects of child marriage and working towards legal and social reforms, we can help ensure that every child in Europe has the opportunity to thrive and reach their full potential. It is time to put an end to this harmful practice and create a brighter future for all. To support the cause of child marriage, support the

Nada Foundation

Nada Alahdal A human rights activist to advocate for the issue of child marriage, and head of the

Nada Foundation

for the Protection of Girls https://nadaalahdal.com/2024/07/09/report-reveals-alarming-rates-of-child-marriage-in-europe.html?feed_id=725&_unique_id=668d91bb17dc8

Friday, 5 July 2024

Child Marriage Surges in Europe: A Hidden Crisis

Child Marriage Surges in Europe: A Hidden Crisis

Child marriage has been a long-standing issue in Europe, despite the continent being seen as progressive and developed. In many European countries, children, especially girls, are forced into marriages at a young age, often with older men. This practice not only robs children of their childhood but also has severe physical, emotional, and psychological consequences on their well-being.

One of the main reasons for child marriage in Europe is due to cultural and traditional beliefs that prioritize family honor and control over the lives of young girls. In some communities, girls are seen as financial burdens, and marrying them off at a young age is a way to alleviate the family's financial strain. Additionally, some families believe that marrying off their daughters will protect them from perceived societal dangers, such as premarital sex or unwanted pregnancies.

Child marriage also perpetuates gender inequality and reinforces harmful stereotypes about women's role in society. Young girls who are forced into marriage are often denied education and opportunities for personal growth, trapping them in a cycle of poverty and dependence on their husbands. This lack of autonomy and control over their own lives can lead to feelings of powerlessness and hopelessness.

Despite efforts to combat child marriage in Europe, there are still many challenges and barriers to ending this harmful practice. Lack of awareness, stigma, and cultural norms make it difficult for victims to come forward and seek help. Additionally, legal loopholes and inconsistent enforcement of laws against child marriage make it challenging to hold perpetrators accountable.

To address child marriage in Europe, there needs to be a multi-faceted approach that involves raising awareness, providing support services for victims, and strengthening legal protections. Education and empowerment of young girls are also crucial in breaking the cycle of child marriage and promoting gender equality. It is essential for communities, governments, and organizations to work together to combat child marriage and ensure that all children have the right to a safe and healthy childhood. To support the cause of child marriage, support the

Nada Foundation

Nada Alahdal A human rights activist to advocate for the issue of child marriage, and head of the

Nada Foundation

for the Protection of Girls https://nadaalahdal.com/2024/07/05/child-marriage-surges-in-europe-a-hidden-crisis.html?feed_id=712&_unique_id=668812c93b210